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| I have a crush on my best friend here at Clark, but they are in a happy relationship and I in no way want to break that up. How do I get over them while still staying friends? |
Dear Destined to be Delusional,
You may be delusional, but it is not your destiny. You get to decide; are you going to wallow in this, or will you get over it? It sucks and you shouldn’t pretend it doesn’t. This is probably something you’d like to talk about with your best friend, so that double sucks. See this as an opportunity to confide in yourself and find the humor in it all. Laughing with oneself is highly underrated.
This will pass. Some ways to speed that up: get a new crush, or a superficial campus crush. Get a fulfilling hobby or join a club sport. Pick up an instrument – like a banjo! Have fun with this transitional point in your life. It will all be okay.
xoxo,
Miss Guided